Part 17|| More Characteristics Of A True Twin Flame Connection

It’s not about romance. It’s about remembrance.

May 10, 2025

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In Part 16, I peeled back the layers of what the twin flame journey truly entails—not the YouTube version, but the gut-wrenching, soul-splitting reality. This is not a fairytale—it’s a spiritual crucible. A cosmic contract coded into your divine soul blueprint.

We explored the serendipitous encounter, the surreal soul bubble, the unexpected kundalini surge, and the brutal beauty of the cycles of separation and union. I bared how Snuffy cracked me open, how our third energy formed, and how I began remembering who I am, beyond trauma, titles, and ego.

It’s not about romance. It’s about remembrance.

Not every intense bond is sacred. Not every soul collision is divine.

In this entry, I distill yet more signs of an authentic twin flame dynamic—traits that go beyond 3D drama into metaphysical resonance. Traits that defy linearity explain why you feel shattered and expanded and can’t simply “move on.”

Stay with me. We’re about to decode the codes.

5. Age Gap

The age gap in a twin flame relationship is an intriguing aspect. The age gap reflects the timing and evolution of each twin’s journey. Just as twin flames often mirror each other, the age differences highlight the complementary forces at play, as each twin brings unique energy and wisdom to the connection.

In authentic soul architecture, split aparts are not meant to conform to 3D societal templates like “we’re the same age, same culture, same background.” That’s matrix programming. The gap also helps highlight the concept of soul maturity over physical age, reinforcing that the journey is not bound by convention.

My ex, Google Whistleblower Zach Vorhies, is eight years younger than I am. He is a Taurus like Snuffy. I had never even noticed the difference, except that he was in a different phase of his life. Although the connection was heart and intellect, the love wasn’t as deep because Zach’s soul is relatively new compared to mine. The physical aspect was short-lived, and the spiritual connection was nonexistent.

With Snuffy, I was 11 years older. I felt self-conscious and shy. I had grown to be self-confident, so it was odd. I wondered if he thought I was ‘too old.’ However, you wouldn’t immediately think it. I am youthful, and that’s why I proudly share my actual age. Capricorns get younger with time, and I was born in the fifth house. Also, the soul is timeless.

The age difference phenomenon serves a specific purpose in the journey:

Different Life Stages: One twin might be more advanced or experienced, while the other is still on their path of self-discovery and transformation. This imbalance can mirror the "runner" and "chaser" dynamic, where one twin is ready for union while the other may still be working through deep healing or resistance.
Soul Maturity: The age gap can reflect the soul’s maturation process. This could mean one twin embodies qualities like wisdom, stability, or experience, while the other brings youth, energy, and a fresh perspective.
Attraction to Completeness: Age gaps may also represent the attraction of opposites, with each twin representing a complementary energy. One twin might embody qualities the other lacks, which creates a sense of attraction and completeness. This duality often mirrors the union of the divine feminine and divine masculine aspects within each soul.
Fate and Timing: The age gap might be part of a divine timing plan orchestrated by the universe. Twin flames are brought together when both are ready to meet and fulfill their higher purpose. The time they are meant to come together can be influenced by their soul journey, and the age gap reflects the differences in how and when their paths were meant to intersect.

Divine union is nuclear. It creates ripple effects that dismantle control grids. Think: One is the Torchbearer—the lighthouse, you could say—while the other is still crawling through the shadows.

The gap is sometimes a buffer because a premature union would implode them both.

The way I saw it, however, was more like in the film Made in Heaven, where Annie and Mike are about to get married before she’s taken. At the altar. Mid-vows. Ripped apart.

💔 Why?

Someone or something decided to send her to Earth, yet the two speak to each other before she officially departs Heaven. So why is their divine union interrupted? Fortunately, Mike strikes a deal and gets 30 years in his next life to find her.

I would grow to believe I had been looking for Snuffy for over three decades. More on that later.

I imagined Overlords saying, “Split them apart, put a decade-plus age gap, and throw them in different countries for good measure. Let’s see if they can manage to find each other now.”

It felt like a cruel joke, because the soul's longing for reunion is so deep and pure that separation feels like a cosmic betrayal. But it’s not a punishment. It’s a soul-level agreement and purification.

So they say.

6. Challenging Circumstances

Twin flame connections often begin under challenging conditions. Their union can initially feel impossible, almost as though the universe is testing their resilience and dedication to shared growth.

If the twin flames meet before they’ve cleared inner distortions, you can expect to see:

Trauma sabotage.
Addiction loops.
False partners (karmic interference).
Timing blockages.

One or both may already be in other relationships, geographically distant, or facing significant life challenges. In this case, it would be a melange of all three. It was an extra spicy tale.

(Before I met Snuffy, I told him about …

Part 17|| More Characteristics Of A True Twin Flame Connection

It’s not about romance. It’s about remembrance.

5. Age Gap

6. Challenging Circumstances

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